How to Convince Your Non-Fishing Partner
to Go on a Fishing Holiday Abroad

By Ian Ford

You desperately want to go on a fishing holiday abroad and catch one of those monster fish you've seen in the media. The problem is that your partner doesn't understand and wants a different kind of holiday. The solution is to convince that partner that they want to go somewhere that allows you to go fishing whilst they are happily occupied with their interests. How easy is that?

At first glance it may seem like nothing more than wishful thinking. Some of the very best fishing spots are remote locations with little interest to any but anglers.

It helps if your partner is an outdoors type, especially if they have a related interest such as photography or bird-watching. If that's the case then you have probably already managed to sort out the holiday issue.

For most of us, with partners who show no interest in fishing and very little in anything at all rated to fishing the task is a little harder. My wife only likes eating fish - and is happier with ones from the market than anything I bring home.

Here is where a little lateral thinking is called for. Where has you partner mentioned they would like to go that offers potential for fishing?

Again, using my wife as an example, there's a great deal of potential in India. It's close (we live in China) and we have friends from India passing through regularly. One of those gave her some authentic Indian clothes which she likes a lot. Recognise the bait?

So what's the potential for fishing in India. In one word - 'Awesome'.

Indian abounds in rivers and many of these contain big and exotic fish. Golden Mahseer, a hard fighting relative of the carp, various forms of snow trout and some really big catfish. Pretty much something to satisfy every style of angler.

So - how to deliver the bait? Remember it's a sly fish your trying to catch here. Nothing too obvious.

We haven't discussed holidays yet this year and perhaps it's best to wait until she raises the issue. That is, wait until the fish is hungry, in a biting mood.

There's no point casting right on the fish's head so best avoid raising India from the outset. It would be more natural to list out several options. Later I could take the slack in and say India outright. There may be a suitable response but it may also be that I have to drift past several times before seeing the take that I want. Only hard-won knowledge of the species in hand is going to let me strike at just the right moment.

As all anglers know, hooking a fish is one thing, landing them another. For many it is the play that becomes most memorable.

Treat this scenario in the same way. Finding options that excite your partner and nearby venues for yourself can become a great game. Every bit of effort you put into the research will pay off in the end - whether it be an activity to keep your partner occupied and you free, or some detailed account of a likely venue.

You must be careful that you don't overplay this game. It would test the line severely if your partner realised the true nature of your enthusiasm. Build in some balance, some activities together, especially just after arrival. If the word 'dumped' ever gets used then you can forget a round two.

That said, there's no point trying to hide your plans until you are in-country. For a start you'll need to bring suitable tackle from home and you'll struggle to keep that hidden. If you can find the right time ask your partner if they mind you 'doing a bit of fishing'. 'A bit' is very unspecific and can therefore stretch a little as you find more that your partner will enjoy.

If you are very lucky you might even be able to pair off with another like-minded couple. Two fishing, two not. It could work better but needs even more careful planning.

Ian has lived and travelled extensively in Asia over the last seven years. He has been a passionate fisherman from school-days and is now combining the two fields by offering exciting and affordable fishing holidays abroad for individuals and groups.

Ian suggests a joint holiday in India as one good one to try first. There's great fishing to be had and plenty to keep your partner interested. Think about Mahseer Safari which takes you to the Ramganga and Kosi Rivers, and your partner to Corbett National Park. Stay in comfortable accommodation with plenty to keep you both satisfied.

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